ATTENTION: Christian Married Couples wanting to transform their marriage
What if the reason for the pain and problems in your marriage is because you're using a broken blueprint?
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Some couples have figured out how to overcome friction, frustration, pain, and power struggles and have grown to rebuild trust, rekindle intimacy, and transform their marriage into a passionate paradise, deeply connected on every level—emotionally, spiritually, and physically—just as God intended.
Don't Worry... There is HOPE!
No matter where you have been, no matter what you have been through, no matter how dark and messy the past, I guarantee you God can heal your marriage.
There is hope. Yesterday really did end last night. Today is a brand new day, and it's yours!
When you entered marriage it was you and them against the world...
So What Happened?
Life happened! You went from life being all about you and them to you and them just trying to survive in life. You went from admiring and liking each other and serving each other daily, to just trying to get through the day and maybe bumping into them somewhere along the way.
At the beginning you were in love. You admired and liked your spouse. You made little deposits in their love tank everyday. Overtime it switched to just doing life together and slowly making withdrawals. Overtime there is nothing left in either of your love tanks and you are both empty and frustrated.
Trading earthly wisdom for heavenly wisdom
Most couples are building their marriage with a broken blueprint. The evidence is everywhere (Over half of all marriages don't make it.)
The way most couples build their marriage is they take and take from their spouse, until they feel "full" enough to give back. The problem is you can only take so much before you run someone dry. You wake up for them to serve you. You are in neutral.
Imagine taking and taking from your bank account until you felt "rich" enough to make a deposit. Wouldn't work well would it? You have to plant before you can harvest. You have to give before you can receive.
Heavenly wisdom is completely different. Rom 12:2 says "Don't be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." God calls us to draw life and love from Him (vertically from above) and show up to love and serve our spouse (horizontally to those around you).
When you have this wisdom you wake up to serve them. You are in gear. You realize that nobody is perfect and that you (and your spouse) are going to have bad days. Your spouse isn't always going to treat you right, but you can always respond in love.
With heavenly wisdom your spouse is no longer the center of the universe. God is. You are here for Him and His Kingdom. This one change....changes everything!
Did you know: In a troubled marriage 69% of all problems are irreconcilable?
DID YOU KNOW: In a good or great marriage 69% of all problems are irreconcilable?!!
Wait WHAT?!!
According to John Gottman, no matter how happy or successful your relationship is, you can't solve most of your issues.
For example, you can't live in the mountains and at the beach.
The difference between happy successful couples isn't the lack of issues, rather it's the ability to navigate them TOGETHER!
The PROBLEM isn't the problem, HOW we deal with the problem IS the PROBLEM
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"Unlike others…he has gone above and beyond"
I cannot say enough good things about my counselor Matt. Unlike others who might just sit there and listen, he has gone above and beyond by providing real solutions and actionable steps…
"Thank you so much for your time, energy, and wisdom"
The feeling is just, it’s so incredible and I hope everyone can feel this. It’s the most amazing journey that I’ll cherish for a lifetime.
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It’s been amazing. The things you teach me every single time make a tremendous difference.
MEET THE FOUNDER & CEO
Hey, I'm Matthew,
Ambassador of Hope, Richerzhagen!
I started Phenomenal Marriage in 2019. Because of my marriage struggles, I made it my life goal to help people overcome in their marriages, so they didn't have to struggle like we did.
I've observed over 5,000 couples over 25 plus years and I've helped hundreds of couples to improve their marriages. It's your turn now!
Certified Human Behavioral Consultant
Certified Life and Relationship Coach
Certified IAT (Integrated Attachment Theory) Coach
We are more than conquerors through HIM that loved us Rom 8:37
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